As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie said, acknowledging changes and being supportive are not mutually exclusive
Should you be struggling with a gift idea for that special person in your life, heres a suggestion: how about a home DNA kit? These are all the rage in America, I recently read in the New York Times, with 3m sold by ancestry.com alone in the past five years. At last, Americans can find out how Irish they actually are.
On the one hand, this builds sense: identity is the hot issue of our age. On the other, it constructs no sense at all, because your identity is, we maintain being told, whatever you want it to be. And, indeed, the New York Times writer stoutly concluded, Whatever research results, Ill still come from a large Irish family. Top o the morning to you, sir: why let a blood test ruin your St Patricks Day?
Nowhere is the discussion about identity more passionately felt than within the transgender motion. If you feel you are a woman, you are a woman is the rule, although some females are querying this. Last week, the novelist Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was asked by Channel 4s Cathy Newman whether trans girls are real females. My feeling is trans females are trans females, Adichie replied, a reply not so much tautological as nearly palindromic. I dont think its a good thing to conflate everything into one.
This was a clearer way of saying what Jenni Murray had written in an article that clumsily argued trans girls are not real women. And as with Murray, the online opprobrium quickly rained down on Adichies head. The next day she posted a clarification on Facebook, but stood her ground: Acknowledging differences and being supportive are not mutually exclusive, she wrote.
The fear of being on the wrong side of history is a strong persuader, and it was clearly behind much of the reaction to the news that the BBC had slapped down Murray. Instead of exclaiming foul at the broadcasters palpably nervy excuse that their presenters must remain impartial on controversial topics( while having no problem with Gary Lineker sharing his political views ), female commentators dedicated Murray a kicking. Let all women be women, was the verdict.
This kumbaya approach is an increasingly popular one. Why cant we ladies all just get along? Hakuna matata! Yet no one is asking why more females than humen are raising objections here. Perhaps people think this is just what females are like: uniquely catty. Lifelong feminists, especially older ones, who convey any reservations about eliding the experiences of trans and cis girls are dismissed as bigoted ol bitches and maybe some are. But there are real ethical issues here, and they overwhelmingly affect women.
Sport is one obvious example. Male-born bodies have had different testosterone levels and muscle distribution from female ones. No one knows what the solution is but feigning there isnt a difference is ridiculous. Then there are prisons. Its easy to cheer on Chelsea Manning, but Ian Huntley who now reportedly wishes to be known as Lian Huntley and be transferred to a women prison is a tougher sell. Should a man with a history of crimes against women and girls actually be in a female prison?
In January, it was reported that the British Medical Association advised that instead of referring to expectant mothers, health providers should talk about the less exclusionary pregnant people. Some young feminists are even asking if its OK to use the words female and girl yet men are not being urged to avoid mentioning their gender. Is it any wonder some girls are calling bullshit?
Just as the fringe elements of the “politicians ” have taken centre stage, so the most extreme aim of the trans movement which insists there are no differences between trans and cis women has moved to the frontline. Some will call this progress; to me, it seems more a suit of throw away the commonsensical newborn with the transphobic bath water. Trans activists say the idea that biology should determine who is and isnt a woman is misogynistic. Yet far more simplistic gender debates are advanced by the trans motion. On Radio 4s PM last autumn from the impartial BBC a mom ran unchallenged when she claimed she realised her three-year-old daughter was a trans boy when she asked for volumes about pirates instead of princess. In another BBC interview last year, Eddie Izzard said he love manicures because hes trans.
That trans people have long suffered from hideous prejudice and violence, and continue to do so, is without question. But as Adichie told, acknowledging changes and being supportive are not mutually exclusive. If anything, they go hand in hand, because they allow females, trans and non-trans, to talk honestly and ensure each other as people, instead of reducing themselves to manicures and menstruation.
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