The Honest Truth About Vying To Win The Title Of Miss New York

Everyone who does a pageant has a story; I am no exception. This year I competed with over 180 other girls for the title. The Miss Universe program is acknowledged as the most competitive pageantry system, and the country of New York is one of the hardest to win. A record one hundred and eighty…

For Anyone Whose Heartbreak Is Keeping Them Awake At Night

Nighttime is the hardest. That’s normal, I promise. You’re not alone in that feeling . You’re not weak, you’re not less capable of getting over heartbreak than other people. You’re not weird or pathetic for staring at your phone screen and wanting nothing more than to see it light up with their name. What you…

23 Things To Expect When You Date A Total Clean Freak

1. They can see the difference between the aroma of cleanliness and that of filth masked by Febreze within seconds, so dont tryto fool them with a few quick squirts of some over-the-counter air freshener. 2. Youll probably receive more than one over-priced scented candle as a gift forno special occasion. 3. Theyd instead stab…

11 Things Every Introvert Must Do Just To Keep Their Sanity

1 . Ducked into a store to avoid someone I knew on the street because I didnt want to chit-chat. Grabbed something off the rack and fled into a change room when I thought they might bepeering in the window to see if it wasme. Subsequently returned the iridescent green jumpsuit to the sales assistant,…

To The Girl He Didn’t Choose

More likely than not, I understand how “youre feeling”. He violated you. Perhaps you werent in love, but he stole a piece of your heart, leaving you a bit more cynical than before. He liked you. He wanted you. He mightve even loved you. But he didnt choose you. He didnt choose you because he…

30 Signs You Were Born A Badass Risk Taker

While we often discuss risk-taking as a trait, some intrinsic part of an individuals personality, risk-taking is actually a process. The process of deciding whether or not to engage in a behaviour that has a significant likelihood of resulting in a negative outcome. And you know what? Negative outcomes are a prospect in situation: whether…

10 Simple Relationship Rules That Will( Probably) Keep You From Wanting To Kill Each Other

1. Make sure you understandyour partner’s needsspecifically, how theyre different from your own. True love is rooted inauthenticitymutual respect and appreciation for each other’s weirdness, so to speak. Chancesare, you have a lot in common with your significant other. But youalso likely havesometraits, habits, hobbies, dreamings, and needs thatdiverge from theirs. Thinklong and hard about…

10 Men Reveal The Brutal Truth About Why They Cheated On People They Loved

1 .” This isn’t an excuse at all, but we were in a long distance relationship. I was genuinely lonely one night and drink a bit more than I usually did.I woke up in some random girl’s bed the next morning .” Rick, 25 2 .” We hadn’t had sexuality for at the least six…

Being On Your Own Is Better Than Being Underappreciated( So Stop Settling)

Youlove being alone. Not something you hear too often from a 20 -something’s mouth, but it’s the truth. You enjoy it, you refer to yourself as an extroverted introvert because truthfullyyou’re mostly at peace whenyou’re in the company of yourself, but can be a social butterfly when you need to be. When it comes to…

Why Everyone Should Run To Therapy

I don’t know you. I don’t know your narrative or your past.I don’t know the heart breaking or confusion or conflict in your life. I don’t know if you’re having relationships a matter that hurt and confuse and steal your elation. I don’t know if you’re struggling with your child and the role of parenthood…