For Anyone Whose Heartbreak Is Keeping Them Awake At Night

Nighttime is the hardest. That’s normal, I promise. You’re not alone in that feeling . You’re not weak, you’re not less capable of getting over heartbreak than other people. You’re not weird or pathetic for staring at your phone screen and wanting nothing more than to see it light up with their name. What you…

50 Questions I Wish I Could Ask The Girl He Cheated On Me With

1. Do you have any self-respect? 2. Or any respect whatsoever for other women? 3. Seriously, do you feel an iota of allegiance to the female sexuality? 4. Or are you some kind of unemotional robot? 5. Have you ever been in a serious relationship? 6. Or are you simply not the monogamy form? 7.…

23 Things To Expect When You Date A Total Clean Freak

1. They can see the difference between the aroma of cleanliness and that of filth masked by Febreze within seconds, so dont tryto fool them with a few quick squirts of some over-the-counter air freshener. 2. Youll probably receive more than one over-priced scented candle as a gift forno special occasion. 3. Theyd instead stab…

50 Stupidly Simple Ways To Tell He’s Not Looking For Something Serious

1 . Your contact in his phone is saved as anything that is not your proper name. For example, Susan Bar Redhead. 2 . He says he’s moving in the next two months( somewhere far away ). 3 . He texts you at 3 am,” U up ?” 4 . He texts you,” Netflix and…

The Honest Truth About Finding Your Forever Person Too Early

Finding your forever person is hard enough, but finding them five or ten years too early is heartbreaking to say the least. Finding your forever person is like finding your soulmate. Seemingly impossible, but when you find it, you grab onto it with all the strength that you have. And when you find that kind…

On Being A 20 -Something Gay Man In A Youth Obsessed Culture

Before coming out as homosexual in 2014 I was beset with a myriad of self-esteem problems. I had stumbled out of high school having had no romantic relationships( guess why ), underachieving grades, and a general air of hopelessness. My best friends were not only effortlessly the top students at our school, but also incredibly…

12 Signs You’re Closer To Find The Love You Deserve

1. You know your path . You know who you are and where youre heading or at least you have an idea or a vision of where your life is taking you. Your future doesnt scare you and your life is becoming more stable and consistent. 2. You learned to love yourself . Its the…

10 Simple Relationship Rules That Will( Probably) Keep You From Wanting To Kill Each Other

1. Make sure you understandyour partner’s needsspecifically, how theyre different from your own. True love is rooted inauthenticitymutual respect and appreciation for each other’s weirdness, so to speak. Chancesare, you have a lot in common with your significant other. But youalso likely havesometraits, habits, hobbies, dreamings, and needs thatdiverge from theirs. Thinklong and hard about…

How To Get Your Ex Back By Remaining Close To Their Friend And Family

The 3 week cut off period during which you shouldn’t speak to your ex post breakup isn’t just about non-communication. Its also about organizing an action plan and putting it into operation. And none more important than preserving a useful relationship with both your ex’s family and friends. I say useful, because these two parts…

Being On Your Own Is Better Than Being Underappreciated( So Stop Settling)

Youlove being alone. Not something you hear too often from a 20 -something’s mouth, but it’s the truth. You enjoy it, you refer to yourself as an extroverted introvert because truthfullyyou’re mostly at peace whenyou’re in the company of yourself, but can be a social butterfly when you need to be. When it comes to…