11 Things Every Introvert Must Do Just To Keep Their Sanity

1 . Ducked into a store to avoid someone I knew on the street because I didnt want to chit-chat. Grabbed something off the rack and fled into a change room when I thought they might bepeering in the window to see if it wasme. Subsequently returned the iridescent green jumpsuit to the sales assistant,…

On Being A 20 -Something Gay Man In A Youth Obsessed Culture

Before coming out as homosexual in 2014 I was beset with a myriad of self-esteem problems. I had stumbled out of high school having had no romantic relationships( guess why ), underachieving grades, and a general air of hopelessness. My best friends were not only effortlessly the top students at our school, but also incredibly…

101 Tinder Pick Up Lines That Are Way Better Than Just Telling’ Hi’

1. You seem awesome and I like awesome people 2. Tacos sometime? Check yes or no. 3. What’s the weirdest message you’ve ever gotten on here from person? 4. Star Wars or Trek? There is only one right answer. 5. Are you emotionally unavailable or emotionally damaged? 6. Be honest. Which member of 1D is…

15 Things You Should Stop Letting People Do To You

1. Stop letting people tell you how you should live. Or what you should wear or who you should date or what you should eat. 2. Stop letting people drain your energy. Detach yourself from these people and dont invite their negativity into your life. 3. Stop letting people pry into your personal life. People…

The Real Way To Get Engaged According To My Facebook Friends

There comes a time in our mid twenties when abruptly all the people you knew and loved and barely said a word to in 9 th grade biology class start getting engaged. You think to yourself a variety of things such as, When did they even get an S/ O? and Wow they can do…

17 Ways Lazy Girls Fake Having Their Shit Together

I’m one of those lazy girls that constantly floats between wearing glasses and sweatpants, to the whole nine yards with murderer heels and a little black dress. But, the majority of cases( all the time ), I’d rather not really try.I have come to find that , none of us really have to try so…

The Truth About Why I Haven’t Determined For A’ Real’ Job Yet

I roll out of bed ataround 4:30 am even after a 1:00 am clock out at work a short 3.5 hours prior. My phone lies on my nightstand lighted up with Nordstrom Rackemails, Tinder messages, and an option to hit Sleep. Next step is usually a trip-up to the bathroom to rinse the make up…

Here’s Why You’re Permitted To Get Lost( And Why It’s Actually Good For You)

You’re allowed to get lost. I promise . We are told to follow maps, to look at our compasses, and to always look ahead. We are constantly told to double checkdirections and to keep walking in a straight line. But, what if we are tired of the straight lines? What if we are tired of…