The Honest Truth About Vying To Win The Title Of Miss New York
Everyone who does a pageant has a story; I am no exception. This year I competed with over 180 other girls for the title. The Miss Universe program is acknowledged as the most competitive pageantry system, and the country of New York is one of the hardest to win. A record one hundred and eighty…
11 Things Every Introvert Must Do Just To Keep Their Sanity
1 . Ducked into a store to avoid someone I knew on the street because I didnt want to chit-chat. Grabbed something off the rack and fled into a change room when I thought they might bepeering in the window to see if it wasme. Subsequently returned the iridescent green jumpsuit to the sales assistant,…
The Honest Truth About Finding Your Forever Person Too Early
Finding your forever person is hard enough, but finding them five or ten years too early is heartbreaking to say the least. Finding your forever person is like finding your soulmate. Seemingly impossible, but when you find it, you grab onto it with all the strength that you have. And when you find that kind…
Why Everyone Should Run To Therapy
I don’t know you. I don’t know your narrative or your past.I don’t know the heart breaking or confusion or conflict in your life. I don’t know if you’re having relationships a matter that hurt and confuse and steal your elation. I don’t know if you’re struggling with your child and the role of parenthood…
Trust In The Timing Of Your Life
Life is chaotic sometimes. Just as you think everything is going swimmingly, something happens that sends you out of whack. It stimulates you a little bit adrift and this unsettling feeling is hard to shake. Whether its losing your job, your SO, or even if your favorite coffee shop closes down( yes, this would suck…
The Truth About Why I Haven’t Determined For A’ Real’ Job Yet
I roll out of bed ataround 4:30 am even after a 1:00 am clock out at work a short 3.5 hours prior. My phone lies on my nightstand lighted up with Nordstrom Rackemails, Tinder messages, and an option to hit Sleep. Next step is usually a trip-up to the bathroom to rinse the make up…
6 Things You Should Start Practicing If You Want To Grow As A Person
1. Set realistic goals . You can always plan, but mind you! Setting a objective is actually putting a deadline to that sketch you have in mind. You need to program your brain into thinking that your aspirations are real, and that they can come true. Set yourself to believing that your goals are possible,…
There Is No Right Way To Watch A Parent Die
When your parent is succumbing , nothing induces sense. There is no right and there is no wrong, there are barely even shades of grey in between. When it is happening slowly, you might even forget they are dying. I forgot my father was dying . I forgot my father was dying, as fucked up…